Hi Kisha,
As Tiana would say, "The evening star is shining bright, so make a wish and hold on tight." It sounds like your family could use some magic right now. The happy news is, magic is unlimited at the Walt Disney World Resort, especially for precious little 4-year old girls like yours.
My niece was granted a wish through the Make-A-Wish® Foundation while waiting on a kidney transplant. Even though the trip was a once in a lifetime gift, the circumstances were seemingly insurmountable. Thankfully, she received the transplant and is now a thriving adult.
If the Make-A-Wish® Foundation did not make any reservations for dining or Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique, you will need to try to make those reservations and I suggest you do so immediately. The week of your visit is busy. When I checked dining reservations for some of the more popular princess meals, there were no times available.
Cinderella's Royal Table and
Akershus Royal Banquet Hall are favorites of my girls. Keep checking availability online or at 407-939-1947 because cancellations do happen.
A princess she must be, so take a peek at other
Enchanting Extras. Try Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique - Magic Kingdom and Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique - Disney Springs for a royal transformation. You still have time to make Fast Pass+ selections. I suggest you use those to visit with Rapunzel and Tiana or Cinderella and Elena at Princess Fairytale Hall. Of course, you can always travel to Arendelle for a visit with Anna and Elsa in Royal Sommerhus.
Kisha, may all the stars twinkle for your princess!
Magic, memories and Minnie Mouse hugs,
Donyell